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First Dates: What To Avoid, In Order To Attract Women. - An Excellent Guide To Learn More
Let's talk about the subject of attracting women. I often get questions regarding how to attract women, or what to do to attract women.
A typical concern that guys have is how to avoid making those significant mistakes on the first date that stops ever having a second date or attaining a sexual relationship (rather than a friendship). I am going to discuss a number of them in this post.
Well, there are certain mistakes a guy can make. Let me summarize the most typical ones here. The largest mistakes guys make on first dates are:
1) Talking about themselves excessively. Trying to be interesting rather than interested.
2) Not asking women questions and not listening enough.
3) Focusing too much on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.
4) Not employing subtleties enough (What a woman understands)
5) Not developing sexual flow or interest.
6) Not making future. (A relationship is all about future.)
The first mistake that most guys make is that they go on the first date and talk everything regarding themselves, kind of strut around telling the girl that he has got this car, and he's got this career and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that trying to impress the girl that he is a wonderful catch.
What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that isn't going to be able to take care of her at all, because he is not serious about her and does not listen to what she wants to say. A bad relationship prospect.
Another way of saying it is that guys act as if they are very interesting. They figure they have to be interesting for a girl to be interested in them. Sorry guys, but it doesn't work that way. You should be enthusiastic about the girl, not interesting to obtain her attention. Did you ever see two interesting people on a date. It's hilarious! They are both so busy wanting to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be interested in the other.
If you don't know what We are discussing, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is keen on you? Or a girl who is telling you how cool she is, how hot she really is, etc, and all sorts of other interesting things.
Interesting leads to a lot of rejections and "platonic" friendships by the way. Girls can be friends with a guy who is interesting. Why? Girls enjoy being amused and entertained. Interesting men are kind of like children to them. A source of non-sexual enjoyment and pleasure.
That is all we have room to talk about here, but you can get more data on the other five errors at Dating To Relating.
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